One of the ways to be effective in life is to know the things that are important to you, and to place them in order of priority. This is one of the secrets to a successful relationship. Imagine a man who sets out by 8am in the morning with his car driving all around town without a destination in mind. At some point he discovers that it would be nice to have some feminine company so at12pm, he picks up a lady on the side of the road who also does not have a clue where she’s headed. By 4pm, he also picks up another lady who knows where she is going, tells the man her destination, assumes that he knows how to get there only to find out that by 8pm, she is yet to get to her destination.
Unfortunately this is how many people live life. Like the man described above, they have no purpose for living, no vision of where they are going, and they go ahead into relationships, either with someone in the same situation as they or someone who knows where they want to go but have no clue how to get there.
You have no business trying to go into a relationship that will lead to marriage if you do not know your purpose in life. You will only end up wasting your time (life) and that of the person you decide to be with. You have a mission (assignment) here on earth, find that out first. You need to first know where you are going in life, because this will ultimately help you make the choice of who to take along with you.
#BeforeYouLeadYourWayToTheAltar, discover and clarify your purpose and vision and make sure you discuss it with your potential spouse. Many have woken up in the middle of their marriage to say they are called to do an entirely different thing that their spouse is not built to do or support. Lastly, your visions might not necessarily be the same, but they should complement each other rather than clash. How was your day?
You are the next big thing. Make it happen!